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100 things an Alkebulan should know/master about birth, life, and death
Birth is sacred and your arrival was guided by your ancestors.
Know your birth story—who was there, what happened, and why it matters.
Understand your African name and its spiritual meaning.
Learn about birth rites in African cultures (naming ceremonies, umbilical cord practices, etc.).
Birth is not random; it’s a spiritual contract—your life has divine purpose.
Every child is born with a spiritual assignment to help heal the world.
Your mother’s womb is a temple—know the sacredness of it.
Birth should be welcomed with ritual, prayer, and joy in the community.
Midwives and doulas were traditional caretakers of birth—learn their roles.
Your placenta has spiritual power—many cultures bury it with intention.
Learn the traditional lullabies and songs used to welcome babies.
Elders whisper destiny into babies' ears—this is called “soul-seeding.”
You were born into a family, not just a household—understand kinship systems.
Know your clan or totem lineage if your culture has one.
Learn how different African tribes bless or protect newborns.
Understand your zodiac and birth sign both spiritually and culturally.
Your first words and first steps are part of your unique timeline—value them.
You carry the DNA of thousands of ancestors—walk in their strength.
Birth is community-centered, not hospital-centered in many cultures.
Learn about traditional birthing herbs, oils, and chants used by ancestors.
Understand what it means to be breastfed, nourished, and bonded.
Your body was formed from Earth, Spirit, and your parents' energy.
Babies are seen as close to the spirit world—listen to them deeply.
Know the role of grandparents in raising a child traditionally.
Learn how sacred symbols were used to bless a newborn.
Birth dates were tracked with moon cycles and seasons—know the natural calendar.
Newborns were protected with charms and sacred markings—learn their meanings.
Your first foods should be nourishing and intentional—learn about weaning foods.
You were never born alone—your soul came with guides.
Every child is a continuation of an ancestral promise.
Life is a journey of learning, service, and spirit growth.
Learn the 42 Laws of Ma’at and how to live by them.
Understand the principle of Ubuntu: “I am because we are.”
Your life is your medicine—use it to heal others.
Know that joy, play, and celebration are part of sacred living.
Live in alignment with nature’s cycles (sunrise, seasons, moon).
Your words carry vibration—speak with power and peace.
Learn how to grow your own food and make your own medicine.
Study the stories of your elders—oral tradition is life education.
Learn how to balance emotions, especially anger and grief.
Practice forgiveness, not as weakness, but as soul freedom.
Know how to give and receive love in healthy ways.
Life is not measured in money, but in impact and legacy.
Stay rooted in cultural identity—it gives you direction.
Be humble, but never diminish your greatness.
Create and protect beauty in your space—art, music, gardens.
Study African proverbs and what they teach about wise living.
Understand your body as a temple—sacred and powerful.
Learn life skills: cooking, cleaning, building, repairing, and surviving.
Practice sharing and mutual aid—it’s part of the village model.
Your life is not yours alone—it belongs to your people.
Never forget the pain of enslavement and colonization, but do not be trapped in it.
Befriend the Earth—plant trees, walk barefoot, thank the soil.
Build your spiritual armor—meditation, prayer, ritual, breath.
Speak your truth, even if your voice shakes.
Be ready to lead when others are afraid.
Dream often and record your visions—they carry guidance.
Do not fear failure; learn and keep rising.
Every sunrise is a chance to begin again.
Dance like the Earth is watching and the ancestors are cheering.
Practice right relationship—with people, plants, animals, and time.
Use your gifts to serve—not just yourself, but the people.
Don’t just survive—thrive, build, liberate.
Practice stillness and silence; they will reveal your path.
Understand the importance of rites of passage and maturity ceremonies.
Work hard but don’t glorify suffering—rest is resistance.
Learn how to heal from trauma using ancestral tools.
Ask for help—it’s a sign of strength.
Know that life is sacred, not guaranteed.
Value your time; it’s your most precious resource.
Give thanks daily—for food, breath, kin, land.
Be responsible for your energy and what you bring to a space.
Know that relationships are sacred contracts.
Live so your name is spoken with pride for generations.
Become the ancestor you would be proud of.
Death is not the end—it is a return.
Learn how different African cultures honor the dead.
Grief is sacred—cry, sing, and wail when you need to.
Know what it means to “join the ancestors.”
The spirit lives on—know how to keep memories alive.
Understand burial rituals and their symbolism.
Learn how to prepare offerings for ancestors.
Know how to speak to your ancestors for guidance.
Understand the role of a griot in keeping legacies alive.
Memorialize your elders with stories, shrines, and shared meals.
Know the importance of funeral cloth, mourning colors, and mourning periods.
Study the practices of honoring ancestors in your lineage (West African, Caribbean, etc.).
Practice silence and stillness when someone transitions—honor their crossing.
Never speak ill of the dead—every soul is still evolving.
Create art, poetry, or music in memory of the departed.
Protect ancestral graves and sacred burial grounds.
Carry a piece of wisdom from each elder who passed on.
Know how to cleanse spaces after loss or spiritual transition.
Teach younger children about life-death cycles gently and honestly.
Learn the signs that an ancestor is near (dreams, smells, synchronicities).
Celebrate the lives of those who came before you through rituals.
Know how to host or attend an ancestral remembrance gathering.
Keep a photo album or storybook of your family’s departed.
Never fear death—live fully and die empty of regret.
When your time comes, may your life be your loudest testimony.