Change a Life 2 Change the World!
A Decolonial Framework for Black woMen, Families, Educators & Communities
Enslaved African women’s bodies were property under U.S. law
Gynecological experimentation (e.g. J. Marion Sims) was performed on Black women without consent
The “breeding” of enslaved women was economic policy, not biology
Black women were hypersexualized to justify abuse
Wombs were commodified, separating reproduction from love and agency
The Mammy, Jezebel, and Sapphire stereotypes all distort sexuality
Knowledge of these truths is necessary to reclaim dignity
Resistance came through abortion, poison, and midwifery sabotage
Black reproductive history is part of global reproductive injustice
The church often inherited colonial shame around Black sexuality
Knowing correct vulva/vagina anatomy is power
Every vulva is unique—there is no “normal” look
The vagina is self-cleaning and rarely needs products
Discharge, menstruation, and lubrication are sacred, not shameful
Learn to do self-exams (mirror, touch, familiarity)
Understand yeast infections, BV, UTIs, and STI signs
Cervix, uterus, and ovaries should be known as parts of sacred architecture
Hormones affect vaginal health (and emotions) throughout life
Menstrual cycles are cosmic and seasonal—track and honor them
Touching your own body with love is reclamation
Your womb stores ancestral memory
Intergenerational trauma can live in the pelvic bowl
Healing can begin with womb journaling and yoni steaming
Black women were the original midwives and birthworkers
Reproductive health rituals existed before colonization
Lineage mapping can uncover how your foremothers gave birth
Prayer, breathwork, and song can activate womb healing
Your cycle can align with moon cycles intentionally
Shame, rage, and grief may surface—this is part of the journey
Every woman is a portal—life passes through you
Sexual agency is your birthright
Consent is sacred, ongoing, and non-negotiable
Your “no” is holy and needs no explanation
Pleasure without pain is a basic right
Emotional manipulation around your body is a red flag
The body remembers what the mind suppresses
You are not required to perform or produce for love
Self-pleasure is valid, safe, and shame-free
You do not owe access to anyone, regardless of title or time
Respecting others’ boundaries is part of collective liberation
Know how pregnancy happens, and how it doesn’t
Learn birth control options and fertility rhythms
Understand abortion history, legality, and resistance
All reproductive choices deserve respect
“Welfare queen” myths were state violence
Black maternal mortality is a crisis rooted in racism
Learn how to advocate for yourself at OB/GYN visits
Learn your family’s reproductive health history
Support Black birth workers and doulas
Explore natural family planning if desired
Your sexuality is yours to define
There are many sexual orientations, expressions, and love languages
Pleasure is healing and not sinful
Explore erogenous zones with self-trust
Sex education should be decolonized, not fear-based
Black erotic traditions existed before colonial religion
Yoni eggs, dance, and tantra can reconnect you to sacred sensuality
Honor your turn-ons without shame
Love doesn’t require self-erasure
“Purity” culture was used to suppress power, not protect it
Challenge media that sexualizes or degrades Black women
Learn the history of video vixen culture and its fallout
Recognize internalized shame from mass media
Deconstruct the myth of the “strong Black woman”
Don't confuse sexual confidence with exploitation
Seek media that celebrates Black femininity and wholeness
Refuse “pick me” culture and competition for male validation
Study how colonialism distorted African beauty
Reclaim your image through art, dress, and voice
Teach the next generation to critique media, not absorb it
Talk about sexual harm openly and compassionately
Support survivors without judgment
Build accountability circles, not carceral responses
Understand the grooming and trafficking of Black girls
Know the signs of coercion and control
Teach children the correct names for body parts
Build intergenerational conversations about safety and sex
Create sacred space for communal womb healing
Center survivor stories in justice work
Your healing helps others heal
The womb is a gateway to spirit and creation
African cosmologies honor the womb as divine
Ancestors may speak through your dreams, cycle, or womb pain
Womb breathwork connects you to divine feminine energy
Spiritual baths can cleanse old energy from sexual trauma
Menstruation is a time of vision and reset
The womb is a drum, a mirror, and a seed-holder
You are a temple—treat yourself as sacred
Connect to nature and plants that support womb balance
Protect your energy, body, and spirit from harm
Fight for reproductive justice, not just reproductive rights
Challenge laws that criminalize Black parenting and pregnancy
Know your rights in healthcare spaces
Organize for Black maternal wellness
Uplift Black-led reproductive health orgs
Connect sexuality to land, liberation, and sovereignty
Honor Black trans women and non-binary folks in womb work
Make womb liberation part of your activism
Pass this knowledge on intentionally
Know: Your body is not the site of shame—it is the site of revolution.